Do you ever look around your house and think about how you have too much stuff, but it is so emotionally stressful to actually do anything about it?
Having too much stuff is stressful, but purging yourself from all the stuff is also stressful.
What is my obsession with stuff? My grandmother lived through the depression and she keeps everything. She isn’t exactly a full-blown hoarder, but that may have to do with the fact that she never had a driver license to go anywhere on her own. She lived in the country (she lives with my aunt now) and every trip to town had purpose.
Maybe it is a genetic thing?
I have certain things or categories of stuff that I tend to
1. Cords. Seriously, why do I need to keep cords? I have no idea what most of them connect to, but I just keep hanging on to them. I have this fear that I have something that has lost its cord and if I throw it away it renders that thing useless. Nevermind that it is useless anyway because I am apparently not using it.
2. Books. I love books. Afterall, I do have an English degree (please do not hold it against me if my blog does not reflect this). I can’t seem to part with my books. I envision having a huge bookshelf with all my books on it–one day.
3. Kitchen gadgets and plastic containers. I have this desire to throw away all those plastic containers that take up all my cabinet space, but then what would I do with all the leftovers that I have? Oh wait, my 17-year-old usually takes care of the leftovers. But still…
4. Medicine, hair care products, skin care products, make-up, etc. Somehow I can’t keep band aids, though.
5. Clothes. I still have jeans from 10 years ago that I was hoping to wear one day. I am happy to say that I have successfully placed those in a box that is destined for Goodwill. I also don’t want to get rid of old t-shirts and pajama bottoms.
6. Shoes. I am in a constant search for the perfect shoe.
7. Purse. Again, I am in a constant search for the perfect purse. I think I have finally found my perfect purse.
8. Notebooks and office supplies. Not sure why, but every time I go to Wal-Mart, or some store like it, I have to look at the office supplies, notebooks, and planners. I am in the constant search for the perfect planner. It doesn’t matter what kind of planner I get, because I forget to use them.
9. National Geographic. Actually magazines in general.
10. Stuff my kids have made in school, church, etc.
I am stopping now. I think you get the picture. Speaking of picture. Look at these beautiful flowers my husband gave me for Valentine’s Day.
They are still sitting on my counter.
I have so many issues.
I searched for minimalist living and found several blogs that discuss minimal living. I know that I probably will never go to the extremes that some have gone, but I know that I have to purge some things from my house and life. It will be difficult, but it will be therapeutic and spiritual as well.
But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. Matthew 6:20
Blogs that I have used for inspiration:
A Guy Named Dave